
The Bride.
Traditionally selects the type of service, oversees all the preparations,
which include choosing the date and the church, who the attendants
will be, the dress and accessories, as well as those of the Bridesmaids.
The Bride will choose the flowers, help with the guest list and seating
arrangements, and attend to the many small details which will contribute
to her perfect day. The most important decision for any Bride is the choosing
of her wedding gown. You will, of course, want to wear the most beautiful
dress you have ever seen, one that reflects your dreams and personality.
It is a good idea to go shopping with someone whose opinion is trusted
and valued, but remember to follow your heart and choose a dress you fall
in love with, as you did with your husband to be. When you find your
dress you will know instinctively it is the one for you.
The Groom.
Arranges transport for himself, the bride and the wedding party, as well
as hiring the church and booking the honeymoon. The Groom chooses his
best man and ushers, and is conventionally given responsibility for
little else! However, in reality, the bride and groom discuss most aspects
of the day. At the reception, the Groom will reply to the Bride’s Father’s
speech, thanking the bride’s parents and guests, and proposing a toast
to the Bridesmaids.
The Best Man.
Traditionally, the best man is responsible for his own dress and that
of the Groom. He organises the ‘Stag Night’, preferably several days
or even weeks in advance, if he is to successfully fulfil his duty of
escorting the Groom to the church on time. On the day, the best man
has to ensure that the whole day runs smoothly, primarily ensuring safe
keeping of the rings. After the ceremony, he is responsible for transportation
of all the guests to the reception. The best man will speak at the
reception, replying to the Groom’s toast to the bridesmaids, and will
read out a few cards and telegrams from guests unable to attend. His final
responsibility of the day is to ensure that the Bride and Groom leave
the reception in good time, and that their transport is arranged.
The Chief
Bridesmaid.
Is chosen by the Bride to assist her during the preparations. On the
day itself, it is her job to make sure that all the other attendants
are in their places. She will arrange the Bride’s dress and veil when
she arrives, ready for her entry into the church. During the service,
she holds the Bride’s bouquet. The Chief Bridesmaid also signs the register,
along with the best man. She is then escorted by the best man, and will
be on hand all day to assist the Bride.

