Planning Tips - Wedding Etiquette Title

The Bride.
Traditionally selects the type of service, oversees all the preparations, which include choosing the date and the church, who the attendants will be, the dress and accessories, as well as those of the Bridesmaids. The Bride will choose the flowers, help with the guest list and seating arrangements, and attend to the many small details which will contribute to her perfect day. The most important decision for any Bride is the choosing of her wedding gown. You will, of course, want to wear the most beautiful dress you have ever seen, one that reflects your dreams and personality. It is a good idea to go shopping with someone whose opinion is trusted and valued, but remember to follow your heart and choose a dress you fall in love with, as you did with your husband to be. When you find your dress you will know instinctively it is the one for you.

The Groom.
Arranges transport for himself, the bride and the wedding party, as well as hiring the church and booking the honeymoon. The Groom chooses his best man and ushers, and is conventionally given responsibility for little else! However, in reality, the bride and groom discuss most aspects of the day. At the reception, the Groom will reply to the Bride’s Father’s speech, thanking the bride’s parents and guests, and proposing a toast to the Bridesmaids.

The Best Man.
Traditionally, the best man is responsible for his own dress and that of the Groom. He organises the ‘Stag Night’, preferably several days or even weeks in advance, if he is to successfully fulfil his duty of escorting the Groom to the church on time. On the day, the best man has to ensure that the whole day runs smoothly, primarily ensuring safe keeping of the rings. After the ceremony, he is responsible for transportation of all the guests to the reception. The best man will speak at the reception, replying to the Groom’s toast to the bridesmaids, and will read out a few cards and telegrams from guests unable to attend. His final responsibility of the day is to ensure that the Bride and Groom leave the reception in good time, and that their transport is arranged.

The Chief Bridesmaid.
Is chosen by the Bride to assist her during the preparations. On the day itself, it is her job to make sure that all the other attendants are in their places. She will arrange the Bride’s dress and veil when she arrives, ready for her entry into the church. During the service, she holds the Bride’s bouquet. The Chief Bridesmaid also signs the register, along with the best man. She is then escorted by the best man, and will be on hand all day to assist the Bride.